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SLOANE S. MONROE

Sapphic Heat Worksheet

Desire and Obstacle

Worksheet 2

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Use when a scene has attraction but not enough friction.

Quick Diagnosis

  • The characters want each other, but the wanting is too easy.
  • The obstacle is external, but the emotional cost is thin.
  • The scene could belong to any two attractive people.

Desire Map

Character A wants:
Character A cannot ask because:
Character B wants:
Character B cannot ask because:
Shared desire:
Visible obstacle:
Hidden obstacle:
Cost of honesty:

Friction sentence: This scene becomes charged because ______ wants ______, but ______.

Mini Example

Shared desire: both want the conversation to continue after everyone leaves.

Visible obstacle: one has a train to catch.

Hidden obstacle: staying would admit that the argument was never only about work.

Revision Check

  • Desire is visible on the page.
  • The obstacle has an emotional cost.
  • The hidden obstacle is more interesting than the visible one.
  • Honesty would change the relationship.